“So don’t bother correcting mockers; they will only hate you. But correct the wise, and they will love you.” (Proverbs 9:8 NLT)
One of the hardest things to hear is "criticism!" Even when it's constructive criticism it still has a sting to it. And yet, Solomon says the wise person does not reject the "correction" of those that love him and has his best interest at heart. A willingness to listen and honestly evaluate the “hard things” someone is telling us demonstrates that we are wise rather than being a "mocker." Mockers (Usually defined as people that will not live by wise, moral teachings and mock those that do. Though, I'm using it in the broader sense of a harsh, hypocritical critic.) only want to hear themselves or the flattery others heap on them. Point out the mockers "blind spot" and they will turn on you quickly! Live out your faith boldly and mockers will heap cynicism on you, too. I don't think we should let every critic "get in our heads" and fill us with self-doubt. But, the wise person opens himself up to hear the people that love him and those they know are sincere in their concerns. We can always sift through the "correction" someone offers and chose whether it is of value or not. If we are transparent enough to learn from others we are definitely going to grow stronger in wisdom! The problem for most of us is that we become so defensive that we miss the opportunities for growth that comes through loving "correction." Don't believe every criticism you hear! Don't reject every criticism you hear! Be open to evaluate criticism as to whether it has any value and can make you a better person. Some criticism has the power to improve our lives after the sting of it has subsided!
