That night the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream, and God said, "What do you want? Ask, and I will give it to you!"...Give me an understanding heart so that I can govern your people well and know the difference between right and wrong. For who by himself is able to govern this great people of yours?" The Lord was pleased that Solomon had asked for wisdom. (1 Kings 3:5, 9, 10 NLT)
Wisdom is the ability to see life from God's point of view so you can plan/respond according to eternal values, not temporal ones. Your choices/circumstances will look so much different when your perspective on them changes! In all your asking be sure to ask God for His jewel of wisdom. He loves giving it to His children (James 1:5)!