Avoiding a fight is a mark of honor; only fools insist on quarreling. (Proverbs 20:3 NLT)
Winning a fight is not always an honorable thing. The real honor may be in "avoiding" the fight in the first place. Too many people view "avoidance" as a sign of weakness when God sees it as a sign of strength. The "quarreling" will stop if just one of the two people involved...will stop quarreling!